Year 2020 Sissy Resolutions


woman showing her purple lipstick Originally, I wanted this year to be focused on my eyes, my avatar, and the way I portray myself (a fun twist towards 20/20). And that may still apply, I do need to get a doc and proper eye prescriptions. But last 4 yrs, with blue balls being really no fun, and after being single for a year, coerced asexual for 4 yrs and open to submission. Where should I start this new year? Well, it’s good to know I have a couple weeks to really set up this and maybe live the year as my truly -no label can hold me -self.

24/7 – hah, never enough time. Even with part time work, I can’t get the energy to get all dolled up, and let things slide. What will give me that extra bit of direction? Motivation? etc..

Self managing my chastity (CB6000s, Holy Trainer, panty girdle), last year, participating in Locktober and failing 16x, I must say my motivation towards my feminine side has always had.. issues. Maybe the grass is greener just in my head. I’ve not ever had a great relationship with a man, but , well, my 7 yrs with wife, or 9 with last gf, just weren’t exactly stellar either.

So. Yes, one resolution I’ll be continuing from 2019 will be enjoying and dedicating myself to the single life. The bachelor but not hermit, lifestyle.  I will be volunteering for the LGBTQ+ and other areas again as well. I will be making myself available to work for those coworkers who flake, kinda paying it forward, I use to be young.. hehe. I will continue making shelli_k18 a lil more clean, a lil less cheap, though still diy and bargain basements.

Do I want to get rid of my belly? I want to be able to touch my toes without turning my face red. No, I want to be more flexible, more happy working with what I have. if anything, making my lil a’s into b’s? Speaking of b’s, I really wanna host a rainbow minecraft with slaves and bitches and… oops, got distracted.. again. though 2nd life might be better.. ahem.

I stopped advertising my ass since last november, and must say, it’s free’d up some time, not that I’ve done much with it..

POF, ALT, locanto, and other craiglist alternatives have not provided me with more than fantasy and a lil bit of talk. Since single is d life for me, for now, I think I will continue without them.

OK. so the major resolution hitlist:

  1. Work on my body so I hurt less
  2. Cut online creep – kill/clean up profiles.
  3. Volunteer more
  4. Take a weekend alone, primped up, every so often.. -self date.
  5. Finish the apartment for guests, not just for self.
  6. Before April – renegotiate contracts – apt. work, self – ok, less a resolution

also, for my own fun,

  1. As of Jan 1st 11:06 – 24/7 chastity until I just can’t.. can I beat my …ahem.. 72 hrs?
  2. Jan 14 international male chastity (again with the 72hrs+)
  3. May – month of self gratification
  4. Jun 11-july 06th discrete feminization w help
  5. Loctober – might skip? or enter differently than self managed
  6. NO-vember – 1 month of self deprival, no pc, no tv, no “bought food”.
  7. 10th of every month, push my fem limits.
  8. 8 & 16 & 24 & ?32? of every month water plants
  9. monthly work on 3d printer
  10. monthly work on feminization
  11. monthly work on flexibility.

Please tell me your resolutions, your ideas, and what I might need to work on. I’m very open to DM’s..



Author: shelli_k18

Effeminate Calgary sissy, looking to push limits, and find dominant friends and usable sissy companions.

2 thoughts on “Year 2020 Sissy Resolutions”

  1. That’s a good list to go by. I keep with my same resolution of self-improvement. I’ve achieved my body piercing goals of 2019- mostly. I want to go up a gauge on my PA eventually, and if it’s ok, my nipples too. I’m looking to change my direct deposit so my partner gets more of my money, sending me closer to being Her financial dependent. I am trying to get rid of a lot of the things that distract me from focusing on being the sub I strive to be. I tend to be too selfish, even though I don’t think I am. I also want to be more politically involved this year and donate more to charities that I can get behind (LGBT groups, environmental groups, etc.).


  2. My resolutions involve me embracing my bisexuality and gender fluidity more this year. I am considering buying a skirt or dress this year once I get my proper sizes. Also: with permission from my partner, I may consider setting up a Grindr account, and have Her control it. Since She is poly, I’m pretty sure She will be on board with this. Once I get my rope tattoo, I intend to switch Her title I call Her from Ma’am to Sir (She’s nonbinary, and doesn’t mind if I call Her Sir). I’m also planning on plugging myself more this year, as my hole has gotten tighter. With my piercings fully healed, I would like to increase the gauge sizes eventually. I want to go to more LGBT+ events, prides, and get more involved in the community.


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